Monday, November 17, 2008

Eeek! We're going to the Inauguration!!


DC here we come! We bought our tickets over the weekend and the price was not too bad. We were just going to to go for two nights, but the airfare went down dramatically if we added on another day. Whoohoo! Liz reserved a room ages ago, so we are staying with them. This is George's first time in DC -- I hope it's not too cold! :-)

Thursday, November 13, 2008

A DIY Christmas

This post has 34 ideas for a handmade Christmas. I think I'm gonna try the homemade truffles. Yum, yum!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

President Obama

Holiday Timetable

And if we're already talking about Thanksgiving, Christmas is not too far behind! Here is a 12 week timetable for the holidays. I love planning! I will add my comments in white. :)

Week #1 - List Week
October 5-11
Make your lists of gift recipients, Christmas cards, menus for Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's, goodies to share or to give, favorite meals to prepare ahead, decorations needed, and gifts to make.

Yep, already did the gift lists (even mine :)) and Thanksgiving menu. No menu for Christmas or New Year's as we visit family. However, Rachel has been asking about us hosting Christmas. Maybe next year. And I've set the date for holiday baking. I just need to decide what. I need to verify tamale day with Mom. Gifts to make? I am thinking of having Rachel make ornaments for the grandparents. Decorations to make? Maybe hang a zillion stars from our dining room ceiling (can be seen from the street). I better get to that!

Week #2 - Browse Week
October 12-18
Develop and record ideas for gifts and decorations. Ask yourself the following questions:

What would our ideal Christmas be like?
What activities are particularly important to our family at Christmas?
How much emphasis do our Christmas activities place on the spiritual side of Christmas?

We've decided no gifts for extended family except for the kids and I have to tell you, it feels so liberating! I'm actually not worrying about what gift to give whom and having alot of time to plan activities that we enjoy.
My sister does a pizza party for family and friends. I'm hoping to help her a bit on that.
We will be making tamales with my mom. I really need to learn to do them.


Week #3 - Supplies Week
October 19-25
After inventorying supplies on hand, purchase non-perishables needed for holiday baking, supplies needed for gift making, film, batteries, gift wrapping, and Christmas cards as needed.

Hmmm...did she consider the family photo to go on the card? I've set aside a weekend for that and discovered that CostCo has the *cheapest* photo cards for Christmas. Gift wrapping - check. No need for film. We are digital, baby! Start making paper stars for dining room.

Week #4 - Baking Week
October 26 - November 1
Set aside the time needed to complete holiday goodie making. Make lists of toys, books, and clothes that children would enjoy and keep the list handy for telling family members who ask what they would like.

We bake at the end of October? I had no idea! Do cookies last that long? Hmmm...maybe we'll start baking next weekend. :)

Week #5 - Gift Making Week
November 2-8
Focus your energies on completing gifts to be made, setting aside gifts that aren't coming together, and writing a Christmas letter. Find family photos suitable for inclusion with Christmas cards.

Okay, I will get over to Michael's and figure out if we'll do ornaments for the grandparents. I was thinking of doing a Christmas letter this year. She finally mentions a photo.

Week #6 - Shopping Week
November 9-15
Decorate your home for Thanksgiving and focus on gift buying for prepared list. Wrap and label packages as you go. Set aside needed shipping boxes.

I will decorate for Thanksgiving as soon as the jack'o'lanterns are gone. I've bought one gift for Rachel. I really need to get on the ball.

Week #7 - Shopping Week #2
November 16-22
Complete as much shopping as possible. Take advantage of many items that are on sale before Thanksgiving! Check Thanksgiving menus and grocery lists: purchase any additional, needed supplies.

Week #8 - Thanksgiving Week
November 23-29
Use this week to prepare Thanksgiving dishes, pies, homemade rolls: enjoy the holiday with your family.

Week #9 - Mailing Week
November 30 - December 6
Complete package wrapping for gifts to be shipped. Complete addressing and mailing of Christmas correspondence.

Week #10 - Meal Making and Decorating Week
December 7-13
Prepare some favorite meals and other baked goods for the hectic days ahead. Decorate. Involve children in memory making!

Week #11 - Final Shopping/Wrapping Week
December 14-20
Complete last minute details and enjoy holiday parties, concerts, and family activities.

Week #12 - Celebrate!
December 21-27
Enjoy the Holidays with Family and Friends! Take time to drive the neighborhoods to enjoy holiday lighting displays. Enjoy family traditions and special meals. Enjoy, and please let us know how it works out. We would love to have your feedback!

Thanksgiving menu

Now that Halloween and the election are over, it's time to talk turkey!

We've decided to have Thanksgiving at our house. It's about time we give my mom a break. :) So I'm thinking about the menu. We will just go traditional for our first time out. I'm just hoping the food will be warm when it gets to the table.

Thanksgiving Menu
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Turkey (natch)
Shrimp cocktail
Stuffing
Mashed Potatoes (Mom)
Gravy
Green beans almondine
Yams (Natalie)
Green salad (CostCo)
Cranberry sauce (Trader Joe's)
Spinach dip
Biscuits (Kat)
Pumpkin pie (CostCo)

Schedule:
Get all recipes 11/7
Create shopping list 11/14
Do non-perishable shopping on 11/22
Go to Trader Joe's 11/23
Finish shopping 11/25
Buy pumpkin pies, flowers at CostCo at 11am 11/26

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Rachel's first loose tooth


The chica has been waiting for this for a year, haha. Last year in school, there were alot of kids turning 6 and they were losing their first tooth. They got a special "tooth bag" when that happened and their name went up on a board. I guess Rachel was feeling a bit left out. So she has been anxiously waiting for this and then Sunday night she announced her lower tooth was loose! I felt it and sure enough it's true. I'm sure it could take awhile until it finally falls out, but I better get a couple of gold dollar coins soon just in case. :)

Simply vacation

I'm sure this will be a recurring theme throughout the next year. We are on a decluttering/purging mission. If it doesn't have a place and I haven't used it in six months, out it goes. Sometimes we think there is no way we can get rid of that much stuff. Don't we need it? Wasn't there a reason we got it in the first place?

I'm sure there was, but a great way to see what you really need in life is to go on vacation. Stay in a condo for a couple of weeks. Preferably a condo that has a washer and dryer in the unit. These are usually furnished with your basic necessities: towels, cooking ware, etc. How many clothes would you bring? Not a whole lot fits into a suitcase or two.

Something strange starts happening. You can get along with *only* 12 towels. You can live with *only* five pairs of underwear. You figure out how to work with only two pairs of shoes, etc.

You discover that you really can live with less.

Yeah, in real life, you'd probably have more stuff: your computer, photo albums, books, DVDs, a couple of pairs of nice shoes. But probably not too much more.

Try it sometime -- it's an eye opener. :)

Halloween 2008




Historic election indeed

I loved this article.

My wife made me canvass for Obama; here's what I learned.
by Jonathan Curley

Charlotte, N.C. - There has been a lot of speculation that Barack Obama might win the election due to his better "ground game" and superior campaign organization.

I had the chance to view that organization up close this month when I canvassed for him. I'm not sure I learned much about his chances, but I learned a lot about myself and about this election.

Let me make it clear: I'm pretty conservative. I grew up in the suburbs. I voted for George H.W. Bush twice, and his son once. I was disappointed when Bill Clinton won, and disappointed he couldn't run again.

I encouraged my son to join the military. I was proud of him in Afghanistan, and happy when he came home, and angry when he was recalled because of the invasion of Iraq. I'm white, 55, I live in the South and I'm definitely going to get a bigger tax bill if Obama wins.

I am the dreaded swing voter.

So you can imagine my surprise when my wife suggested we spend a Saturday morning canvassing for Obama. I have never canvassed for any candidate. But I did, of course, what most middle-aged married men do: what I was told.

At the Obama headquarters, we stood in a group to receive our instructions. I wasn't the oldest, but close, and the youngest was maybe in high school. I watched a campaign organizer match up a young black man who looked to be college age with a white guy about my age to canvas together. It should not have been a big thing, but the beauty of the image did not escape me.

Instead of walking the tree-lined streets near our home, my wife and I were instructed to canvass a housing project. A middle-aged white couple with clipboards could not look more out of place in this predominantly black neighborhood.

We knocked on doors and voices from behind carefully locked doors shouted, "Who is it?"

"We're from the Obama campaign," we'd answer. And just like that doors opened and folks with wide smiles came out on the porch to talk.

Grandmothers kept one hand on their grandchildren and made sure they had all the information they needed for their son or daughter to vote for the first time.

Young people came to the door rubbing sleep from their eyes to find out where they could vote early, to make sure their vote got counted.

We knocked on every door we could find and checked off every name on our list. We did our job, but Obama may not have been the one who got the most out of the day's work.

I learned in just those three hours that this election is not about what we think of as the "big things."

It's not about taxes. I'm pretty sure mine are going to go up no matter who is elected.

It's not about foreign policy. I think we'll figure out a way to get out of Iraq and Afghanistan no matter which party controls the White House, mostly because the people who live there don't want us there anymore.

I don't see either of the candidates as having all the answers.

I've learned that this election is about the heart of America. It's about the young people who are losing hope and the old people who have been forgotten. It's about those who have worked all their lives and never fully realized the promise of America, but see that promise for their grandchildren in Barack Obama. The poor see a chance, when they often have few. I saw hope in the eyes and faces in those doorways.

My wife and I went out last weekend to knock on more doors. But this time, not because it was her idea. I don't know what it's going to do for the Obama campaign, but it's doing a lot for me.

Jonathan Curley is a banker. He voted for George H.W. Bush twice and George W. Bush once.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Reaching your Dreams

Great post on accomplishing your goals.

“So I posed a simple question. ‘If you were going to become an artist, what would you do first?‘

“Chris answered easily. ‘I’d set up a little studio in my basement. Maybe rent a booth at the local artist’s market and try to sell something.’

“‘Yes, making a living as an artist is tough,’ I replied, ‘but setting up a studio doesn’t mean you have to stop working to make a living, does it? Would you be willing to take that small step and see where it leads?’

“That’s the key: Take a small step toward your ‘unreasonable’ goal. I find clients almost always have a plan in mind—they simply need ‘permission’, as it were, to act on it. That’s Step One.

Monday, October 27, 2008

Pumpkin Patch



I know I'm a geek

The beginning and end of the only full-scale rendition of the Millenium Falcon.

In this age of three-dimensional rendering and clusters of super-fast, AMD-driven computers it is easy to forget that only two decades ago the film industry had to depend on skilled manual workers to build the sets and props that they relied on the make their magic. Nowadays it is computer artists who craft so much of the environment we see on the silver screen, but before the advent of digital technology it was carpenters, lathe operators, painters, plasterers and a whole army of craftsmen who did much of the work.

Monday, October 20, 2008

Boo at the Zoo!

My brother and his family have been going to this event for the past 3-4 years. We could never make it until this year. The Japanese princess and Indy had fun. :-)


Thursday, October 16, 2008

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Get Rich Slowly

I like this basic financial advice:

Money is more about mind than it is about math.
When we overspend, we’re making mental mistakes, not math mistakes. We all understand the math. Fortunately, we can do things to trick ourselves into making the right choices, and eventually those choices will become second nature.

Goals are important.
Without financial goals, you have no direction, which makes it easy to spend money on things you’ll regret later. But if you know that you’re saving for a house, for your daughter’s college education, or for a new car, your goal will keep you focused.

Spend less than you earn.
Track every penny you spend. Avoid debt. Avoid debt. Avoid debt. Easier said than done, I know, but the fundamental rule of personal finance is this: in order to get out of debt and build wealth, you must spend less than you earn. There’s no way around it.

Pay yourself first.
Before you pay your bills, before you buy groceries, before you do anything else, set aside some percentage of your income to save. Start small if you have to — even 1% is good — and increase your savings as you’re able. Aim to reach 20%. (My wife saves 25% of her paycheck!)

Small amounts matter.
Don’t be frustrated if you’re only saving $25 per month. I started small, too. Though the going seemed slow at first, these small moves helped me develop good habits. And don’t underestimate the power of just one small change. When I cut my cable bill from $65/month to $15/month, that extra $50 made a huge difference.

Large amounts matter, too.
It’s good to clip coupons to save money on groceries, but it’s even better to shop around for the best deal on a mortgage. Everyday frugality can save you a little money consistently, but by making smart choices on big ticket items, you can save thousands of dollars in one blow.

Do what works for you.
Each person is different. What works for one person may not work for another. There’s no one right way to save or to invest or to pay off debt or to buy a house. Don’t believe anyone who says there is. Be willing to experiment until you find methods that are suited to your life.

Slow and steady wins the race.
The most successful people are those who work longest and hardest at something they love to do. Find ways to make frugality fun. Recognize that you’re in this for the long haul. You’re making a lifestyle change, not looking for a quick fix.

The perfect is the enemy of the good.
Too many people are reluctant to start getting their finances in order because they don’t know what the best first step is. Don’t worry about getting things exactly right. Choose a good option and do something. Optimize later.

Failure is okay.
It’s okay to make mistakes. Even billionaires like Warren Buffett make mistakes. We learn from failure. Don’t let a single mistake drag you down. It’s better to have tried and failed than to never have tried at all. Use failure to learn how to do better next time.

It’s more important to be happy than it is to be rich.
Don’t become obsessed with money and wealth. Remember Ebeneezer Scooge! Money gives you more options, but happiness makes life worth living. I believe that if we’re able to stay happy and in control of our lives, money actually becomes easier to manage.

Do it now.
It’s easy to put things off. But the sooner your start moving toward your goals, the easier they are too reach. Further reading: Getting to now: Beating the procrastination habit.

Monday, October 6, 2008

Our new chef?

So last night Rachel announced she was going to make dinner. Ummm...I was checking my email...ummm...sure. Well, Rachel came up with some unique concoctions. Cold tortilla strips with ham and salsa. Goldfish crackers and salsa. A ham sandwich with salsa. And for dessert, banana with chocolate sauce. They were all rather decent, but I could've lived without the goldfish crackers. LOL

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Our homeschooling path

Our story is long. I never imagined we would be homeschoolers. Only 6 years ago I was a fervent supporter of the public school system. George and I went to some of the worst schools in CA and still managed to get an education. I figured we were in a bit better neighborhood now, so the schools should be fine for Rachel.

Well, we do attachment parenting and it just seemed to be the antithesis of the philosophy to put our child in a school for 6-7 hours 5 days a week. Preschool was a bit of an easier transition. Only a few hours in the mornings. However, none of us were thrilled with our preschool choice (just went with a friend's recommendation) and I happened to get laid off at the same time. I was getting a nice severance package and decided that after a 20 year career, I would take a break.

It turns out alot of AP parents turn to homeschooling. I found a local group and started attending their classes for little kids. I also, began selling children's books and booked a stall at the local homeschooling convention. I liked the idea of homeschooling, I liked the people I was meeting, but I was still fine with public schools. However, the convention opened up George's eyes. He was not to sure about homeschooling at that time, but he attended a session on teaching gifted children and it clicked for him.

After I went back to work, George quit in order to get his license. He became Rachel's primary care giver and started teaching her at home. Nothing formal. Just your basic ABC's and numbers. Rachel picked things up quickly. She was on the verge of reading when she started kindergarten.

She did go to kindergarten last year. They had her reading in two months! However, we kept getting the feeling that we didn't quite fit in that environment. While other parents were gushing about how much the kids were learning, we were blowing off the homework. Rachel was sick alot (remember no preschool) and sometimes
she just preferred staying home. No problem for us, but we got a letter from the school about all her absences.

For us, it's also a lifestyle choice. Every night I had to worry about getting home, having dinner, cleaning up, taking baths and getting to bed on time for school. And she started school at 10am.

For first grade, she would be starting at 8:00am. That meant that when I got home at 6:30pm, we would have exactly 2 hours before she had to be in bed. I didn't like that idea at all. I also saw that as she went through the higher grades, the homework would get more intense. Don't these children learn enough in 6 hours of school?

Rachel is sensitive, smart, and inquisitive. She loves art, dance, and music. She seemed to learn lower case letters in one day. ?? And can sometimes do math in her head. Yesterday, she learned about the continents and how fast the Earth spins.

We actually had a very difficult time deciding to homeschool. It would mean George would have to restrict his private practice. His work is something that he *loves*. However, we are figuring out ways for him to have his work and also to homeschool our daughter. Although we talked about it for years and went back and forth all summer, we didn't make the final decision until a week before school started.

The day before school began, I withdrew her and we went to return her uniforms. She chose a bunch of pretty dresses instead.

Eight years ago today...





I love you, Poohberry!

Thursday, September 11, 2008

9/11

I'm sure everyone remembers where they were on 9/11. We're on the West Coast, so we were still asleep when my mom called to say we were under attack. We turned on the TV and couldn't believe our eyes. I didn't go into work and it turns out they sent everyone home. We were across the street from LAX and they were worried there would be more attacks. My co-worker said it was eerie with no flights going in or out of the airport.

It was 5 days before our first anniversary and 4 days before Rod and Natalie's wedding. One of their groomsmen couldn't get out of NYC, but the rest of the festivities went off without a hitch. Some people may not think so, but it was the perfect time for a wedding: celebrating friends and family at an unbelievable time.

That night we decided to start a family and Rachel was born the following July.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Monday, July 14, 2008

Origami Festival

Japanese Garden
California State University, Long Beach





Monday, July 7, 2008

Kindergarten Pageant

My sister just gave me the pics she took of Rachel's last week of school. :)




4th of July!